[Apologises for this being so late]
Do you know what makes a girl/woman attractive? When she is confident. Not so confident that she is arrogant but when she is truly comfortable in herself and does not allow anyone to put her down.
The best way to tackle lack of confidence is by going against how you feel. For example: you are not confident enough to speak in front of others - confront it - speak and speak like you never have before. Another example you like to wear dark colours when you are feeling down - pull out a red dress and do not allow what you think to get ahead of you.
When you allow lack of confidence to bring fear to you - the only person you are hurting; is yourself!
Do you realise that when you have lack of confidence you open many windows for fear to rest in you?
You get my drift...Boost yourself up; no one else can/or should do it for you! That way when silly people come with those ridiculously hideous comments - it bounces off you!
So remember to build up your confidence do these steps(in no particular order):
- Do something completely different to what you would normally do
- Be yourself - accept yourself too!
- Socialize, speak up and enjoy yourself
- Look you best - nothing boosts up the confidence of a woman more than when she knows she looks good! Try doing this daily
- Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself 'I AM AWESOME' 'I AM BEAUTIFUL'
It's time for a change...The only way it will happen is if you do something different!
Hope you get it!
Love and Hugs
Tillyah
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